nybody and everybody requires some help at sometime or other in their lifetime. There is a saying in Telugu. Even gold plate requires support to stand. When somebody approaches us for help it is always advisable to tell them whether we can help or not clearly. Otherwise they may expect us to help and they may not approach others. So not expressing our correct stand is not correct.

When we require some help it is always better to ask the people who can really help us. Depending on a single source is also not correct. Really who wants to help us may have some other priorities and may not be able to help us, but he may be exploring the possibilities to help us. So we should think from their side also. So have a fallback arrangement also. Everybody will have some or other reason for their acts.